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charmed
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Subtle Seductress
You know that sexiness is all about being secure in your own skin -- whether it's covered in a full-length coat or only massage oil. Sure, you enjoy wearing enticing outfits and indulging your sensual side when you want to, but you know you don't need to flaunt your bod to get noticed. Why? Because there's so much more to you than meets the eye -- and you expect men to grasp that fact just as well as you do. Besides exuding friendliness and a dash of leave-it-to-the-imagination mystery in your dress, gestures and flirty grins, your autonomous allure is a turn-on, too. "You adore attracting the attention of men but don't feel life comes to a screeching halt without them -- the satisfaction you receive from your family, friends, career and hobbies is just as important," explains Hallie Potocki, author of What Do Men Want? "It's that engaging sense of self-worth and independence that makes you all the more desirable."

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XxFlower of ScotlandxX

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Subtle Seductress

You know that sexiness is all about being secure in your own skin -- whether it's covered in a full-length coat or only massage oil. Sure, you enjoy wearing enticing outfits and indulging your sensual side when you want to, but you know you don't need to flaunt your bod to get noticed. Why? Because there's so much more to you than meets the eye -- and you expect men to grasp that fact just as well as you do. Besides exuding friendliness and a dash of leave-it-to-the-imagination mystery in your dress, gestures and flirty grins, your autonomous allure is a turn-on, too. "You adore attracting the attention of men but don't feel life comes to a screeching halt without them -- the satisfaction you receive from your family, friends, career and hobbies is just as important," explains Hallie Potocki, author of What Do Men Want? "It's that engaging sense of self-worth and independence that makes you all the more desirable."

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Are those your eyeballs? I found them in my cleavage....

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Ice Queen
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Come-Hither Honey
Is it the way you walk or your lusty lingo that sets off so many sparks in guys' hearts (and elsewhere)? Either way, you give Samantha from Sex and the City some stiff competition in the sizzle department. Your male-magnet 'tude makes you the envy of all of your friends and prompts enough randy invitations to book you through 2002.
But be careful: By projecting a cocky, check-me-out vibe, you could wind up looking like you're overcompensating for a lackluster personality; guys may not take you seriously because you don't show them that you have a deeper dimension than your cleavage. "It's possible that you're using your sex appeal as a shield to keep men from knowing the real you," says Shirley Glass, Ph.D., a psychologist in Baltimore. "You worry that if they see more of your personality and less of your bedroom, they won't be as interested anymore." As a result, you may have a hard time attracting men who want a meaningful relationship with you. "It's natural to want to be liked and desired, but allure isn't about wearing your sexuality on your sleeve," says Hallie Potocki, author of What Do Men Want? "So what is considered sexy? Being someone he wants to spend time with -- not just physically, but to laugh with, tell his secrets to and share ideas with." So next time you meet a hot prospect, temper that vixenish attitude and tell him about the real you -- the funny, smart, complex person inside. You'll command more respect, and your relationships will be more satisfying. There's so much more to you than a revealing neckline -- give yourself the chance to prove it.

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We are all born for love. It is the principle of my existence,
and its only end.

I feel it when I when I sorrow most:
It is better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

Seduce my mind and you can have my body
Find my soul and I'm yours forever

Love is like war,
Easy to begin but hard to end.

Love is like a rumor,
Everyone talks about it,
But no one truly knows.

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SirLardsAlot

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G-Rated Gal
While it's perfectly okay that you're not vying to be a siren, you may be stifling your sex appeal (and your sex life) by denying your sensual side. Maybe you compare yourself to actresses or friends who are the image of erotic perfection and decide, I'll never turn a guy on like that, so you reject that M.O. entirely because you don't feel comfortable with your body or your flirting finesse. "Chances are, you grew up with a 'good girls don't' mentality," explains Hallie Potocki, author of What Do Men Want? "You may be afraid of acting sexy and embarrassing yourself or of sending suggestive signals to guys and not knowing how to handle the consequences."
To hit that blend of racy and respectable, you need to discover your desirable side (yes, it's there) and take a few risks. "Indulge yourself with body oils, perfumes and silky underwear. Play up your sensual personality at home where you're comfortable," recommends Shirley Glass, Ph.D., a psychologist in Baltimore. Once you start feeling in tune with the more libido-friendly you, add a little va-va-voom to your day -- be it a compliment to the cute guy at the gym or smoldering eye contact with a stranger. "Challenge yourself to be bolder," says Potocki. "You'll gain confidence when you see how positively people respond to the sexy new part of you -- and you'll wish it had come out sooner."

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WaLdO

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Subtle Seductress

You know that sexiness is all about being secure in your own skin -- whether it's covered in a full-length coat or only massage oil. Sure, you enjoy wearing enticing outfits and indulging your sensual side when you want to, but you know you don't need to flaunt your bod to get noticed. Why? Because there's so much more to you than meets the eye -- and you expect men to grasp that fact just as well as you do. Besides exuding friendliness and a dash of leave-it-to-the-imagination mystery in your dress, gestures and flirty grins, your autonomous allure is a turn-on, too. "You adore attracting the attention of men but don't feel life comes to a screeching halt without them -- the satisfaction you receive from your family, friends, career and hobbies is just as important," explains Hallie Potocki, author of What Do Men Want? "It's that engaging sense of self-worth and independence that makes you all the more desirable."

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